yea that's awesome and really unique since in my understanding japan is really a place of discipline and respect and honor.In which myself was brought up and again i was really influenced in japan a lot from a good person.
right now I'm trying to learn Japanese language and writing system but its hard but not hard i just need to find a place to really learn and think.

other question ? in a tea ceremony what are the rules of the tea provider ? like what she needs to do in order, when preparing the tea and giving it to the guest.

please correct me if I'm wrong because it is only the female who do the tea ceremony but guys can too?