... pen-pal, that is

I am new in here, so Heja, everybody

I've been around reading the forum, as I did on many other forums dedicated to the subject, watched 792 videos on how to learn Japanese, and all seem to point in the same direction: learn Japanese from a real Japanese person.

Believe it or not, out of the 126+ mil. Japanese people out there, there isn't a single one that is willing to be my pen-pal o_O

Which tells me that:
0) I might have a really bad way of advertising my wish for pen pal;
1) I might be searching in all the wrong places;
2) Japanese people are just not interested;
3) ???

I can't fix it if it is (2), can work on (0), but am hoping that it is (1) and I just have to find the right place to look. So, can somebody here, please, point me in the right direction - where do I search for a pen pal?

(no, looking around does not help - I live in Denmark and there aren't many Japanese people around here)

Peace of mind to all,
- Shantal

Have you tried japan-guide? That's what I use to contact actual Japanese people, though the people vary by age. I'm a teen so I get a lot of contacts. Their is sure to be at least one person who is willing to contact you. Hope I helped