I suppose you doubt in him and you maybe think that he is cheating on you. You can never be 100% sure.

If money is not an issue then take a plane and at least visit him. You love him and if you don't want to loose him then you should take some action before it's too late.

If you have children your relationship would be even stronger . I guess you don't have such.
Anyway, don't loose hope.

This is amazing to find out how they act towards you. I can imagine it would be hard for me to adjust seeing as I am overtly confrontational person.

guys I'm so happy I can read something that I can totally relate to... I have a japanese boyfriend and he is seriously making me go crazy! I feel like Im starting to have a bipolar disorder or something! One moment I'd feel loved and then the next day I feel nelected so I cry like every other day and smile every other day OMG what the heck is wrong with him! So sometimes I make efforts like giving him a cold shoulder but OMG it never worked! I forgot! He's Japanese! these wont work! He was just like, why are you different? are you busy? why dont you message that much? dont you miss me anymore? LIKE OMG huhuhu I really dont know what to do!! I need help!!! I need a doctor! or maybe he needs a doctor!

When I was in high school, two gent's from Japan came to finish their last year of high school. They always seemed angry with most people. The only persons who had regular conversations with them were the teachers and those people who's families were very well of financially? When most of us tried to talk to them, we were ignored like we didn't exist. The school put two ping pong tables in the common room. That was the only place that I saw these two actually speak to me or most anyone else. At first everyone lost at ping pong to the gent's from Japan. But after four months of playing it was not just a one sided game any more. Then the gent's stopped coming to the common room all together?

Generally, Japanese people are really nice towards me. I think it has something to do with me speaking really casual Japanese though.

They're great as friends. But as lovers, I'm just not the type to be able to understand what they're thinking unless they lay everything out on the table.

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