Sorry I think this was misunderstood. I'm not out to find a relationship or anything like that. I have always been curious about japanese culture and wanted to know if there was a difference between how this was veiwed in Japan as opposed to the US.

If ever I decided to make a trip to Japan it would be for going to see the old castles and just general travel, and Sumo.. Always wanted to go see a Sumo match.

Sorry if I caused confusion with my question.