i am really confused right now my japanese boyfriend has been avoiding me for 3 months now.we've been together for 5andhalf years.everything was great then suddenly he stopped communicating.since we are separated by distance for 3 years,everyday we go on line and chat.just exactly as he retired from work,he also stopped our communication.although he still sends me financial help in due time, he only email me to inform that he sent money.although i try hard to ask him why,he never answer my questions.but he always say in his e-mail "ganbatte kudasai"..does he still love me? i really don't understand why ikinari? i am so lost and broken hearted. i love him so much.please advise me what should i do?