one day i sat down with my japanese girlfriend next to her laptop. i asked if she could show me some pictures from the files in her laptop. Some pictures turned out being just a single photo of a man and her with several other photos with different men as a couple.she tried to explain to me that they were just friends. this was hard to believe but i did anyway. we are still together and i agreed to never look in her computer again.these pictures stirred up jealousy.