Hmmm, nothing has been posted in a while.

WOW is all I can say after ready all of the posts to date.

Some serious hate going on between some people.

But back to the topic, I guess I am lucky and unlucky at the same time; because of my religion and what I believe in, it would be a lot easier to go to japan and find a wife. That's the lucky part. But with that said, I am rather extremely inclined to marry within my own religion which is what I would do of my own will. But there are only 123, 245 church members in japan(a consensus in 2008) in my religion. (some guesstimate hacking now) maybe a 1/3 of them are under 18 which would leave me with 81, 342 of which maybe another 1/3 of that is married already leaving 53, 686 and then another 1/3 hacked off(people too old too marry) leaving 35, 433 in which 1/2 would be girls that i might marry so i have a potential pool of 17, 717.(sorry, I'm very mathematical) Now, for one guy like me, I guess that's a pretty good chance, but when there are around 63, 539, 340 japanese girls(done with slashing numbers) it kinda pales in comparison. But with all that said, I still have a good chance because hardly gaijin from my religion come to japan.

No hate here man just some heated discussion betwen people with totaly different opinions...


Suprisingly I understand what you say and can totaly respect that but that way of thinking is so
obsolete...
If you love someone and want to marry them then religion should not be an issue.
I'm not a person who could talk about marriage but about love I do know something,and that is without love there is no marriage.
From my experience I learned that love goes beyond religion,race,culture and any other things that
separates us.
You can chose who you will marry but you can not chose who will you love,and like I said without love there is no marriage.

I apologize if this post offended you but that's just my humble opinion.

no no, i see what you mean. It's just that, my life would be a LOT easier if I did marry within my religion, so even if I fell in love with someone outside of it, I would try to get them to see my religion the way I do and hopefully convert them or just push those feelings aside and find someone else.

but on an entirely different note(not pun intended) do most japanese girls like guys that can sing?

Look each person is unique so some might like that and some might not,but if a girl truly likes you it will not matter if you can sing or not.
If a person likes you it is because of who you are and not what you can or can not do.

kinda funny that you say that you say that because I guess singing is a part of me. It makes up who I am. But thank you.